25 years old girls don't cry

I have mentioned before in my blog, for those of you who are thinking about finding the right one and settling down, you probably want to avoid girls under 25. The reasons are that they have that internal alarm that goes off and warn them about finding the potential mate to have babies, but at the same time is afraid that they haven't done enough things before they get married.

There are stories where young couples got married, then the wives told the husbands that they need to do some soul searching, they weren't ready yet.

I can't say I totally understand, the options are always with the girls. Maybe they should not think that marriage nor motherhood ends all their opportunities for trying new things.

Fergie recently has a song that has a girl telling the guy that she is leaving and taking this soul searching road alone. It is somewhat sweet, but it is still the same, girls need their freedom, girls need their time before their time...

Fergie's "Big Girls don't cry"

Da Da Da Da
The smell of your skin lingers on me now
You're probably on your flight back to your hometown
I need some shelter of my own protection baby
Be with myself in center, clarity
Peace, Serenity

I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We got some straightening out to do
And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I've gotta get a move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry
Don't cry,
Don't cry,
Don't cry

The path that I'm walking, I must go alone
I must take the baby steps til I'm full grown,full grown
Fairy tales don't always have a happy ending do they
And I forseek the dark ahead if I stay

I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We got some straightening out to do
And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket

But I've gotta get a move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry

Like a little school mate in the school yard
We'll play jacks and uno cards
I'll be your best friend and you'll be mine Valentine
Yes you can hold my hand if you want to 'cause I wanna hold yours too
We'll be playmates and lovers and share our secret worlds
But it's time for me to go home
It's getting late, dark outside
I need to be with myself in center, clarity
Peace, Serenity