2/21/2006

What do men want...

It is not a big secret that women are as clueless about men as men are about women.

Many female acquaintances (not girl friends) asked me after discussed their relationship problems, "I am so confused, what do men want?", the best answer I could come up with was, "hm... er... women?"

When it comes to relationship, men are not trained to think, they are trained to follow their instincts, and they get rewarded most of the time. (check my last blog, women hate men who are indecisive)

To ask girl out on a date, to ask for girl's hand, to make that move to kiss the girl... The burden is usually on the men to make more moves, less thinking. This will leave girls ponder... what do men want out of this relationship?

Without going into discussion of how men just want women with big boobs and tiny brains. Men are actually more passive in a relationship when it comes to thinking about where the relationship is going. So good boyfriend or not, they usually, generally are thinking about the next move, not tomorrow, next date, not next annaversary...

The question is still out there... What do men want? The answer? They have no freaking ideas either, other than, perhaps, WOMEN.... :)

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

You are right...
Men want women...

Without women, what's the meaning of men's existance?

said...

I have a question
what do men want women for exactly ?

lambofsilence said...

We men usually think about that question "after" we get the women, then spend the rest of the time running from the question.

said...

sad but that seems to be a fact.....@_@