參加婚禮是開心的事,直到認識的長輩開始關心,什麼時候要換你,我的回答是,還沒有對象,接下來就一定是... 你為什麼沒有女朋友?
昨天出去一天,大概被認識不認識,長輩,年輕輩,問了超過十次.當下還真的答不出來,因為也不是不知道自己喜歡什麼菜,只是沒有在買菜而已.
大部分的人會自己接下去說,男生沒關係,要不,就是一定是你太挑了.這我倒從來不否認,我見過太多自稱不挑的男女,不挑收入,不挑身高,但就挑一個最難的-感覺,不喜歡就說感覺不對...那還是挑嘛~
好啦,我很挑,但我又沒在找,還不知道從哪挑冽?
有個朋友建議,如果我不喜歡同事或客人介紹,可以試試JUST FOR LUNCH或EHARMONY一類的徵婚方式,我是忍住沒把她踹下車,她說我又不從身邊的找,每次出去又嫌妹不是已經認識,就已經結婚了,不如試試有科學根據,沒有COMMITMENT的交友方式...我還真的不知道怎麼回她 (OLIVER,你趕快把你的交友網建起來吧...)
還有人說,你一定很多人追...雖然我活在21世紀,男生被女生追還真的不常見,我想一定是我看起來很多人追,所以就沒有人敢追我...最好是...
也有人說,你一定太油腔滑調,不正經,這也是真的,要突破女性對我這個第一印象很不容易...
但真正的原因我覺得還是...我沒真的去找...或者另一種講法,沒有遇到,再者,用女性同胞的講法,就是沒有感覺對的.又要喜歡,又要適合自己...太多去想了.
現在如果有長輩問,什麼時候好事,我的答案會是...我弟的好事應該比我近,去問他吧...
5 comments:
I guess you are just too picky. You are not an "un-marketable" person. Maybe you are looking for love at the wrong place. You do know that pretty models demand high income and a fat savings account, don't you? Perhaps you are in the process of acquiring that fat bank account and fancy house. If that's the case, you will continue to ask the same question until you have the necessary "credential".
Good luck, my friend :)
i hope i don't give ppl impression that im looking for dumb and pretty models, in the contrary, if you know me or my exs, they are not. But i have to agree on where to look, i just don't know anymore.
I know you are better than that. It was just a jab at you to see if you are still on the right path. The dating scene is tough though. When you find the right one, you will know.
thnx! that is encouraging!
Geez... I am working as hard and as fast I can already. Stop being so pushy. ;)
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