原以為我不會需要到去試這種活動, 在社團的壓力與誘惑下, 還是參加了.
一開始, 就遲到了近一個小時, 朋友先打電話來, 問我去了哪, 我趁機問我們有沒有對手, 朋友說沒有, 我才慢慢的過去, 還是自己意願不高, 對這活動的期望不高.
場地內, 人聲鼎沸, 有點像股票市場, 也有點像廟會, 我被安排到自己的座位上, 與認識的朋友交換了一個眼神, 他的眼神有點憂傷, 我的眼神大概是你居然騙我, 哪有漂亮的對象! 有三分一的女生不是台灣人, 但百分百的女生是要找對象的…
兩分半認識一個人很困難, 聊一模一樣的東西也很困難, 女生大多問我工作是什麼, 男生大多問女生年紀是多少, 很明顯看得出來男女要的東西的差異.
最後, 每個人要選自己喜歡的對象, 雖然自己沒有喜歡的對象, 但還是有不知哪來的花痴自信, 相信應該還是有幾個會喜歡我, 結果… 一個都沒有, 二十二個女生一個都沒選我, 對自信有很大的打擊.
和朋友吃飯, 被笑了一頓, 一是嫌我說話太油, 二是說我過胖, 感覺像二次打擊…
SPEED DATING, 如我好朋友說, 可能有令人驚喜的意外, 雖然是令人不開心的意外, 但可以確定, 我沒辦法從這方式找對象, 這種方式與在酒吧裡認識人有和差異? 大家還是你厄我詐, 離開的時候, 我禮貌的對對面的女生說FB上見, 她才坦承她用的是假名(我還藝名勒), 我都不知道說什麼好… 還是… 回家看蝴蝶姐姐好了…
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這個活動還需要用到假名喔?
太誇張了吧
hahaha 假名好笑~
and... they are not even pretty! they are from HK btw...
Haha. How did you know that none of the girls chose you? Did you ask the organizers?
Oh yeah... Those 2 girls that sat in front of you. Bad looks... And even worse personalities.
ya i did... i shouldn't have asked... somebody did pick you though, but she also pick 3 other ppl at the same time.
好怪的活動喔!!我就不會參加囉!!!
you should definitely do it, then bitch about it on your blog. :)
I joined Speed Dating for 3 times:
1st: UBCTA in 2003: there is a super hot guy who stole all lady's attention. The orignazer lost my score card in the end so I know nothing about the result
2nd: Click2Aisa in 2005: 5 out of 10 are hot girls. And they all came from the States (WTF!)Surpisring to me, I got 0/10 vote. (let's call it a reality check)
3rd Click2Aisa in 2006: host by ex-TYPEABC memeber, John She, most of the girls are known friends. (Quite an ukkward feeling) Got 1/15 vote. But that "1" girl disappear shortly after.
That is why I didn't join this time!
the girl in front of you? jackie? carrie?
should valid name before let people join next time, how dishonest
the girl in front of you? jackie? carrie?
should valid name before let people join next time, how dishonest
這種人下次不讓她參加活動, 大家出來認識朋友, 連名字都做假, 怎麼會有真心
you are damn right, but with world like this, more ppl are becoming too protective of themselves...
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