Maybe spring is in the air, when I took a vacation back to Taiwan, many of my friends are dating, some after being single for a long time, some for the first time in twenty something years. I was amazed, but I thought at least I won't be around when they are in their little sweet world...
When I come back, I was again amazed to find out some of my friends are dating again, all of them happy!!
I guess being single long enough will turn a person into a couple-phobic, sometimes it becomes a little intolerable having people around you too happily in love. My solution? I have created different lists for different categories of friends.
A. Single friends: Doesn't have to be the positive sex, just friends I know I can usually count on when I need someone to dine out/watch a movie with.
B. Couple friends: They will sometimes occasionally call you, if their love ones are out of town/busy, and they feel bored. These friends are still okay to hang out with, because you never know when they will come back to A-list. Of course, picking up their calls are optional, and you can avoid their "double dates", especially there is just you and both of them.
C. Married friends: They are probably the worst for singles. They usually contact you once in a long time to host a home party at their house, trying to set up dates (so you can join their group), or trying to gossip about the people they know (maybe they are too bored?).
So, for those of you who just got B-listed, no worries, I know some of you will come back to A-list...
3 comments:
oh lamb~ u'r my best friend, but ya, i prefer to stay on your B list forever~
hahaha~
A+ is reserved for girls who are single and avaliable... oh... and hot
B+ is reserved for friends who are sort of in a relationship, but are either breaking up or too early to tell...
Haha..so what list i belongs to..kaka..hopefully A+..kaka
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