This might not be a new concept to some, but I am not talking about 4 months expiry, so a guy can dump a girl because she is not "fresh" any more. (or vice versa)
If you believe in FATE and its mysterious way of doing things. You might agree with me that every couple have a "destined hours" together.
Here is the math, if A and B are meant to be together for 1000 hours. Depending on how they waste their hours, they can breakup in 3 months if they spend more than 10 hours each day together, or 3 years if they spend 1 hour each day.
Some will say "what are you saying? what about couples who are married for 50 years?" Sure, they get MORE hours than people who are just daing. Try to follow my math here, if a couple spend 50 years together, average 4 hours spent together, that is only 73000 hours! What happens next? Well, one of them will always die before the other, and the destined hours is spent.
I know it might sound depressing, but you have to remember a few things:
1)No one knows how many hours a couple have together, it is decided by Fate, not you,
2)Giving each other more space and time might help the relationship to last long, because you are burning off your hours slower. (not in hour term, but in duration term) Refer to my previous example, same 1000 hours, one couple breakup in 3 months, the other in 3 years!
In conclusion, if you don't know how many hours you were meant to have together. Why not try to enjoy every moment you have like the last hour you spend together, while at the same time, if you really like the person, why not strategically distribute the hours well by giving each other more spaces, so the relationship might last longer?
2 comments:
very well said! I guess another question is if there is anything you can do to extend that number of hours together even though you believe it's FATE that decide that number of hours. Can FATE be changed so that the number of hours be extended or shortened.
That is the problem actually, I think the number of hours is preset by FATE. And you cannot change what FATE has chosen. However, you should not worry about extending the hours, 'cause I don't know how many hours you have to start with.
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